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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 25.06.2025 07:23

How does one succeed in life?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

What I need from you?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Procrastinates a lot.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Is Melania still angry that she failed as a model? Why is she so cold and hostile? Why did she blame everyone for her actions in her trite book?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Ask yourself:

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

What sparked your interest in books and how did you develop a love for them? What are the advantages and disadvantages of being an avid reader?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Making more friends is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

That's it for today.